Southampton Domestic Couple

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Southampton Domestic Couple

Southampton, NY
Full Time
Paid
  • Responsibilities

    Private family seeks a hands-on, service-oriented Domestic Couple to provide full-time, live-in care and maintenance of their primary Hamptons residence on a multi-acre estate. This dedicated couple will ensure seamless daily operations of both the interior and exterior of the residence, maintaining impeccable standards of cleanliness, organization, and hospitality-forward service.

    The couple will consist of one Housekeeper / Hospitality Professional and one Houseman, working collaboratively to uphold the highest level of service. This is a full-time, year-round, live-in position with private in-residence accommodations provided, The schedule follows a rotating format, with flexibility required during family visits and weekends. The family resides on property approximately every two weeks, year-round, with heavier presence during the summer months.

    The ideal couple is warm, personable, and service-minded, with a strong background in hospitality and private household operations. They are observant, proactive, and detail-oriented, demonstrating discretion, reliability, and a commitment to excellence. They bring an intuitive, polished approach to service, anticipate household needs with ease, and work seamlessly as part of a collaborative, high-service environment. This is a long-term opportunity for a Domestic Couple who enjoys both hands-on household care and gracious, hospitality-driven service. The family values professionalism, initiative, and genuine warmth, and is looking for a reliable team who takes pride in creating a welcoming, polished, and beautifully kept home.

     

    Domestic Couple – Housekeeper

    Responsibilities include, but are not limited to:

    • Execute high-touch service including table settings, food and beverage service, and light healthy meal preparation
    • Provide family-facing service including meal plating, fruit preparation, light cooking (e.g., eggs/bacon), and coffee/tea service
    • Support family and guest hospitality, maintaining a poised, polished, and professional presence
    • Offer thoughtful, anticipatory service during family stays, adapting seamlessly to changing needs and household rhythms
    • Manage daily housekeeping routines and ensure the home remains guest-ready at all times
    • Assist housekeeping team with deep cleaning, performing museum-quality cleaning across all interior spaces
    • Care for and organize wardrobes, linens, closets, and pantries
    • Maintain housekeeping supplies and manage household inventories
    • Collaborate with other staff to ensure cohesive household operations and consistent service standards
    • Additional Housekeeper and hospitality focused responsibilities and duties as needed and requested by the family

    Requirements:

    • Strong command of English language; superb communication skills, both written and verbal
    • Minimum 8 – 10+ years related experience working in a similar position with a private family
    • Excellent references from current and past employers
    • Service and hospitality background required
    • Exceptional knowledge of fine cleaning techniques and care of specialty surfaces and furnishings including wood, marble, glass, silver, brass, antiques and fine arts
    • Skilled at household deep cleaning and specialty laundering of fine garments
    • Polished, poised and professional in both mindset and manner, use of utmost discretion and confidentiality at all times
    • Detail-oriented, proactive; team-player mindset
    • Superior organization skills and willingness to go above and beyond in all aspects of the job
    • Proficiency with basic household technology, online ordering, and communication tools
    • Flexibility in scheduling with the willingness to work additional hours as needed
    • Legally able to work in the U.S.

     

    Domestic Couple - Houseman 

    Responsibilities include but are not limited to:

    • Oversee daily upkeep and general maintenance of interior and exterior property areas
    • Perform light repairs, including basic electrical, plumbing, and equipment troubleshooting
    • Maintain vehicles, garages, tools, and outdoor areas
    • Manage vendors and coordinate seasonal property maintenance
    • Set up and break down outdoor entertaining areas and assist with events as needed
    • Conduct regular property inspections and monitor systems such as HVAC, lighting, and irrigation
    • Ensure property readiness for all family arrivals and departures
    • Handle weather-related property preparations and maintenance
    • Provide occasional driving support for family or guests

    Requirements:

     

    • Strong command of English language, superb interpersonal and communication skills, both written and verbal
    • Excellent references from current and past employers
    • 5–7+ years of experience in a similar private household or estate role
    • Strong mechanical aptitude and ability to perform minor repairs
    • Tech-savvy and comfortable managing household systems and tools
    • Exceptional organizational skills and dedication to responsibilities; willing and able to take direction well
    • Hands-on, Reliable, discreet, and service-oriented with excellent communication
    • Physically capable of lifting up to 50 lbs and working long hours outdoors
    • Organized, strong attention to preventative maintenance
    • Valid driver’s license and clean driving record
    • Legally authorized to work in the U.S.

    Compensation (combined): $180,000–$200,000 per annum + Benefits

     Benefits: Live-In Accommodations, Health Insurance, PTO

  • Compensation
    $180,000-$200,000 per year